Oneness – The Ultimate Healing Experience

It might seem a bit strange to read of a hypnotherapist talking about the ‘mystical’ state of Oneness.

Indeed, most hypnotherapists deal with stopping smoking, overcoming phobias, dealing with emotional crises and the like.

But what I’ve noticed over the last several years is that my work has become more ‘spiritual’. By that I mean I’m helping more and more people to find a deeper meaning in their lives and connect up to a bigger reality.

Expanding consciousness – getting out of your ego trances

What I’m referring to here is expanding consciousness, helping you out of the narrow perceptions of the ego that have probably dominated your life for decades.

And this is where hypnosis plays a vital role. You see, hypnosis should not be limited to just solving problems. It is at the heart of how we can change the way we see the world.

In this article I’m going to talk about hypnosis and the REM state and how, when used correctly, it can be the key that ‘opens the doors of perception’ into a bigger reality.

Experiencing the state of Oneness

Now, you might ask, ‘what’s the point of connecting up with a bigger reality? What good will it do me?’…

Well the thing is this…

Most of us go through life blindfolded. Gurdjieff, the philosopher and mystic said that, “humanity is sleepwalking,” and that we experience life through a very narrow lens.

We see only what our consciousness allows us to see. We go through life living by the distorted ideas that were conditioned into us years ago.

But there is a larger reality, another way of seeing and experiencing the world. And, once tasted, there is no going back!

What I’m talking about is the ultimate human experience; a direct experience of ‘God consciousness’.

When it happened to me, quite unbidden whilst pushing my baby son in his pram through a street in Colchester, it became – and remains to this day – the most meaningful experience in my whole life.

My experience of Oneness – the mystical state

My account of this has been published in Steve Taylor’s book, Spiritual Science but I’ll give you a brief rendition here…

“It was mid-morning on a bright autumn day in Colchester and it was my first time out with my baby son – just me and him, alone together...

Having parked the car, I pushed him in his pram down North Station Road, feeling really proud to be a dad. I smiled at strangers and everything in the world felt right.

Sensing the love from a stranger who smiled at me as he passed, I smiled back and felt a stream of energy flowing between us, from heart to heart.

I looked at the pavement, lampposts, street signs, cars racing past, all with a growing sense of wonder. “How wonderful that someone laid this path for us,” I reflected, “…and the lampposts, what a wonderful invention…and the music coming from that car – just perfect – someone wrote that…someone invented the CD player…people made it…”

I suppose you could say I was feeling a profound sense of gratitude and wonder that things existed, what philosophers might refer to as an ‘ontological state’.

The sense of wonder and appreciation intensified until I became one with all and everything. Subject (me) and object (others/things) all merged into one.

I merged into everyone and everything, and they into me. There was no separation. Where I ended and others began, I could not tell. Everything was one...

And the only word to describe the state was ‘love’. Everything – and everyone – were made of love. Love is the universal substance, in everything and surrounding everything.”

My awareness was aware that time had stood still, or, more accurately, I had stepped out of linear clock time. I was floating in the eternal.

No time. No separation between myself and others. All objects, all people, all things, including myself were one and the same.

How the mystical state changed me – immediate affects

This experience of Oneness lasted about twenty minutes of clock time (I’ve since retraced my steps) and as I ‘came to’, returning to normal, every-day consciousness I felt that there had been a ‘gravitational shift’ within me.

I had been gently birthed out of ego-consciousness and into soul consciousness. In the words of 13th Century mystic, Meister Eckhart, the birth of God in my soul had taken place.

I felt ‘born again’, baptised by the Holy Spirit.

I immediately felt more altruistic, more empathic, more tolerant, more compassionate, more attentive, kinder, more loving toward everyone and everything.

And the affects continued for several more weeks. Although the intensity of the experience wore off (thankfully so, as I doubt I’d be able to deal with normal day-to-day tasks if the state remained permanent) the memory of it will always persist.

The positive affects of altruism, empathy, compassion and the like have certainly stayed with me.

Trying to make sense of it all

I’ve spent the best part of a decade trying to understand what I experienced on that bright autumn day. I’ve researched others’ accounts of such experiences, going right back into the annals of ancient mysticism.

It seems certain that what I went through was, in the words of Steve Taylor, a ‘high intensity awakening experience’. The only other time I’d had anything close to this was through the use of LSD and ‘magic mushrooms’ in my 20s.

(I’ve recently set up Suffolk Psychedelic Society that deals with integration of psychedelic experiences, either good or bad).

It was only when I stumbled upon Advaita Vedanta in a second-hand bookshop several years later that I started to understand things better.

This branch of Hindu spiritual philosophy posits that the world we call ‘real’ is just an illusion, consisting of only our preconceived notions and perceptions. In other words, we don’t see the world as it really is, only our own perception of it.

Advaita philosophy states that there is a fourth state of consciousness – beyond waking, sleeping and dreaming – and it is the state of Oneness. They refer to it as ‘non-duality’ – no separation between subject and object.

This is the state I accessed somehow on that walk through Colchester with my baby boy.

So, what does Oneness have to do with hypnotherapy?

What we’re really talking about here is consciousness. In a non-dual state you become merged with everything – you become pure consciousness.

As ‘you’ – or, more accurately, your centre of awareness – witnesses things, it is as if you are consciousness witnessing itself.

It took me a while to understand this so I’ll repeat…

In the state of Oneness – referred to as ‘Turiya’ in Advaita – you are consciousness witnessing itself. 

There is no ‘you’ getting in the way – no notions, no preconceptions, no thoughts or running commentary. You are one with All That Is. Your consciousness is swept up into the universal consciousness.

This has been referred to in all the great religious texts compiled over the centuries. Jesus referred to it as the Kingdom of Heaven, Buddhists might refer to it as enlightenment or Nirvana. Zen masters call it satori.

As a therapist, through my own experience and the many I’ve researched, I conclude that the experience of pure consciousness is the most powerful way of shifting one’s perception, and with it, bringing about emotional healing and transformation.

The transformative use of hypnosis and the REM state

This is where hypnosis and the REM state play an important and even vital role. You see, what we’re doing with hypnosis is focusing attention.

When we do this we begin to enter the REM state – nature’s optimal learning state (more of which you can read in my e-book). And I’m forming the belief that the REM state is a portal into Oneness, into pure consciousness.

Hypnosis accesses the REM state. Meditation accesses the REM state, as does the use of psychedelic drugs. And it is in that state that we can feel a real connection to a larger reality, call it God, Allah, Spirit, the Universe, the Great Mystery, Nature, whatever. And in so doing, something shifts in you.

Coming home to yourself

This is why I now practice this type of therapy more often, a more ‘spiritually based’ hypnotherapy, with the aim of helping you have a direct experience of something more profound. It’s just as if your heart and soul are coming back to life. It’s like coming back home – to yourself.

And surely this must underpin all good therapy? To help you become real, authentic, to awaken a deep meaning in your life and a connection to a larger reality? To help you feel truly alive in each and every moment, no longer living as a ghost to yourself, but fully present in the here and now. For this is where life is.


If you have had experiences of Oneness – naturally or through the use of psychedelics – please get in touch. My research is ongoing and I would love to hear your story.

Online integration sessions help you make sense of and assimilate such experiences into your daily life.

And here are three books about Oneness and mysticism that will support your own study…

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